Bare yourself naked, they say.
Be who you really are.
Allow yourself to be vulnerable;
only then will you achieve genuine happiness.
No matter that you’ll feel genuine sorrow, too,
and pain and love and passion,
the whole gamut of emotions.
What does it mean, though, to be vulnerable?
Should you unpeel yourself like a piece of fruit?
First, the outer, strongest layer,
the one that protects you from pain,
but also the one that prevents you from truly mixing with the others who are so like and unlike you,
the banana with the mandarin,
the apples with the strawberries,
the pomegranate with the pears?
If you strip away this outer layer of ego, what will happen?
Only the pulp will remain,
Imagine unpeeling even further,
till you get to the core,
till you understand what exactly is at the center of your being.
It’s a mystery, and yet, you want so badly to know, don’t you?
Is there a black hole inside you, swallowing your emotions,
leaving you feeling alienated and numb in this world,
a black hole that, one day, will swallow you up entirely?
Or is it more like a white light, which illuminates your mind,
and pours through your pores,
making you shine like a gemstone,
dissolving your outer surface,
the sharp edges and rough texturing,
to reveal the hidden quartz inside?
What will you find at the core of your being,
if only you would examine it,
You have a theory.
You think God might be hiding inside of you,
playing the longest ever game of hide and seek,
and you haven’t been able to find Him
He’s hiding inside you,
but also inside him and her,
and within the bark of the trees and the veins of the leaves.
He’s hiding in a light bulb where a moth will burn if it gets too close,
and in the center of the sun,
where you’re warned not to look for fear of going blind.
He’s hiding in your parents and grandparents,
in your children and grandchildren,
in the puzzle pieces you used to play with,
clapping in triumph when you’d finally put them all together.
He’s hiding in books and movies which have moved you to tears, laughter, and awe.
He’s hiding in the music which lifts you, and makes you want to dance,
or meditate on meaning.
He’s even hiding in your enemy, isn’t He?
Showing you what it means to be “other”,
because only then will you know what it means to be human,
and how to bring the world closer together.
What does it mean, then, to be vulnerable?
It means just letting yourself be,
travelling deep within and unlocking the gates,
exposing whatever there is inside –
the dark, the beautiful, the glistening, the gray –
allowing people in and allowing people out.
It means learning to become comfortable with being uncomfortable.
It means doing the things that scare you the most,
‘cause what’s life without a little adventure?
It means using your voice to change the world,
going in search of that voice.
I bet it’s hiding in there somewhere,
maybe right next to God.
Go find it and don’t come back till you do.
Bare yourself naked, they say.
Well, are they ready to hear what’s coming their way?
Are they ready for you?
Are YOU ready for you?
It’s about damn time.